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Advice and Advise

Hi guys! On this night of a beautiful holy month, Ramadan. Things just got stuck in my mind. So I think I should share my thought with you guys. 


happy ramadan :) :d image


As the title advice & advise.
There are a difference between these two words
And on this entry I'm going to include about learning, understanding and all of the words that have the same meaning with these two words.

I am so glad you guys take your time to read my-not-interesting-entry. 

So actually, like we usually know. Ramadan is the month where we need to practice to do kind things. To do things that gain our pahala. Everything that we do, Allah will redeemed it with more & more pahala.

Okay that's the prologue.

Lets begin with advice

Advice is the positive or negative comments that make people changed

Next is advise
Advise is giving other people positive or negative comments to make them changed.
In Malay language,

Advice : nasihat
Advise : menasihati, menasihatkan & sebagainya

However, there are sort of ways to advise. 
Either is it positive or negative. First all of the way you giving out the advice.
Even though, someone is doing something totally wrong. But its not your chance to embarrass them. 
If you want to advise them, then you should just pass the advice between you and the one that you want to give the advice. 

I'm not going into it, but you get that point right. You shouldn't make them feel uncomfortable with the advice. 

But things that totally make people changed is when they being advised. I don't think it would be advice. I think its more to they being scold. You know how people hate to being scold in front of the crowd. They will feel very bad and shame. 

They will totally changed because they don't want to be scold in front of the crowd anymore. 

Anyway, when you giving out the advice. You shouldn't come out with the thought like this "bila dah tegur baru tahu nak berubah." 

You know, at least they changed and they understand whats the point of you giving the advice. 

I have been thinking for so long, very long. But as I done searched, I should share it with you guys. 

Usually, as a muslim. You can see some muslim are not covering their aurat and all the things. Because we are muslim we are not perfect. Islam is perfect. But muslim, not. 

But how bad you are, you need to pray. Pray just like a pole. Without a pole how can we build the house?

Can you imagine, if we done nothing to get to heaven. Then how could we wish for it? 

It just like you want something, you dreamed of it. But you don't work for it
It just nothing, even if you want to get a great result on an examination. You need to work for it. 
Everything that you want, you need to work for it

REMEMBER NOBODY'S WILL COME TO YOUR FUNERAL AND SAY SHE WAS AN INTERNET FAMOUS, SHE WAS RICH, SHE WAS PRETTY, HE WAS HANDSOME, HE HAD SO MANY GIRLFRIENDS, HE HAD A BUNGALOW, HE HAD A VERY NICE CAR. 

But in the end of the day, we still keep on making mistakes. Not being a good muslim. 
But we have such a very generous god, Allah. 
Taubat door always open for us. 


Last but not least, take the chance of this beautiful month.
Do the kind things, less the sin. 

Have a barakkah Ramadan. 
Till then.
Love, Aliyah :) ♥

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